10 Tips to Help a Loved One with Dementia Enjoy Thanksgiving

Best Caregiver Agency, Garden City, NY

Thanksgiving is a time for family, gratitude, and shared traditions. For families with a loved one living with dementia, this holiday may come with unique challenges. However, with thoughtful preparation, the day can be meaningful, enjoyable, and less stressful for everyone involved. Here are ten tips to help your loved one with dementia feel included and comfortable during Thanksgiving.

1. Simplify the Guest List

Large gatherings can overwhelm someone with dementia. Keep the guest list small and include familiar faces to reduce confusion. Inform guests about your loved one’s condition in advance so they know what to expect and how to engage appropriately.

2. Stick to a Routine

Individuals with dementia thrive on consistency. Establishing a daily routine is a must when providing dementia care at home to your loved one.  Aim to schedule the holiday festivities around their normal daily routine. For instance, if they typically nap or eat at certain times, incorporate these into your Thanksgiving plan.

3. Create a Quiet Space

Noise and activity can be overstimulating for someone with dementia. In fact, a noisy environment may lead to agitation and anxiety for a person living with dementia.  Designate a quiet, comfortable area where they can retreat if they become anxious or need a break from the festivities.

4. Modify Traditional Foods

Thanksgiving meals are central to the celebration, but certain dishes may be challenging for someone with dementia. Offer easy-to-eat options and avoid foods that are difficult to chew or swallow. Familiar dishes they’ve always enjoyed can also evoke positive memories.  Finger foods could also make mealtime easier for seniors with dementia who may find using utensils challenging.

5. Incorporate Familiar Traditions

Traditions can provide comfort and spark memories. Whether it’s a favorite Thanksgiving song, prayer, or decoration, incorporate familiar elements into the celebration to make the day more meaningful.  You may also want to bring dementia activities along to the holiday gathering including, family photo albums, a puzzle, word searches, adult coloring books, or a doll for something comforting.

6. Use Visual Aids and Simple Communication

Dementia affects communication skills, so be patient and use clear, simple language. Visual aids, like a written menu or photos of past Thanksgivings, can help them feel oriented and engaged.  A person with dementia may ask the same question multiple times.  Rather than answering the same question repeatedly, try changing the subject to something your loved one will enjoy discussing such as, a favorite vacation spot or their past career.

7. Involve Them in Preparations

Even small tasks like folding napkins or arranging table decorations can make your loved one feel included. Focus on activities they can handle and enjoy.  This will give the person with dementia a sense of purpose as well as making him/her feel useful.

8. Plan Activities That Stimulate Memory

Thanksgiving is a perfect opportunity to revisit cherished memories. Look through old photo albums, play familiar music, or share family stories. These activities can provide joy and connection.

9. Assign a “Buddy”

Having a designated family member or friend keep an eye on your loved one can help ensure they remain comfortable and safe throughout the day. This person can also help redirect them if they become confused or agitated.

10. Consider Professional Support

If managing Thanksgiving feels overwhelming, consider hiring a professional dementia caregiver. They can provide support with meal preparation, mobility assistance, and companionship, allowing the family to focus on enjoying the holiday together.

How Family First Home Companions Can Help

At Family First Home Companions, we understand the challenges of caring for a loved one with dementia, especially during the holidays. Our senior care services and dementia caregivers are here to provide compassionate, professional support that helps families celebrate with ease.

• Meal Preparation: Our caregivers can assist with preparing dementia-friendly meals that are easy to eat and nutritionally balanced.
• Companionship: We help your loved one feel engaged and included in the festivities.
• Mobility Assistance: Whether it’s walking to the dining table or joining activities, we ensure your loved one moves safely and comfortably.
• Creating a Calm Environment: Our caregivers understand how to recognize signs of overstimulation and provide gentle redirection or breaks as needed.

The Importance of Celebrating Together

Thanksgiving is more than just a meal—it’s a time to connect, reflect, and create memories. By planning thoughtfully and seeking support when needed, you can ensure that your loved one with dementia feels valued and loved during the holiday.

If you’re looking for dementia care at home or professional support during Thanksgiving, Family First Home Companions is here to help. Contact us today to learn more about our in-home care services and how we can make the holiday stress-free and enjoyable for your entire family.

Wishing you and your family a warm and joyful Thanksgiving!